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Stephen 776

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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Tyranogre in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    Someone has a method here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PokemonBDSP/comments/sb4eji/changing_the_swarm/
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Doc Brown in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    Someone has a method here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PokemonBDSP/comments/sb4eji/changing_the_swarm/
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Youngster Joey in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Eliwood8 in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from April in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from EH_STEVE in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from alienboyva in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Tyranogre in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Doc Brown in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    All of this actually happened yesterday to schedule change, and anyway, Davy and I are officially engaged~
     
    Ring also getting resized because measuring ring size hard.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from EH_STEVE in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    The ring arrived today. I think I more or less planned how our day off together (Sunday) will go. Take train into the city and get seafood at a nice place by the waterfront, and ask him there or the nearby park.
     
    I do not have any idea how exactly I'll hide the ring until I ask. I have cargo pants which can maybe mask a big bulging square, but idk. I do not feel comfortable taking it out of the box lest I lose the ring. 
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    The ring arrived today. I think I more or less planned how our day off together (Sunday) will go. Take train into the city and get seafood at a nice place by the waterfront, and ask him there or the nearby park.
     
    I do not have any idea how exactly I'll hide the ring until I ask. I have cargo pants which can maybe mask a big bulging square, but idk. I do not feel comfortable taking it out of the box lest I lose the ring. 
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Tyranogre in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    The ring arrived today. I think I more or less planned how our day off together (Sunday) will go. Take train into the city and get seafood at a nice place by the waterfront, and ask him there or the nearby park.
     
    I do not have any idea how exactly I'll hide the ring until I ask. I have cargo pants which can maybe mask a big bulging square, but idk. I do not feel comfortable taking it out of the box lest I lose the ring. 
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Tyranogre in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    We passed the bill in the senate, but failed the house. No DLS bill has passed the house.
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    Stephen 776 reacted to Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    10 provinces and 3 territories and yet only 5 doctors in the whole country (3 of which are in the SAME CITY??) authorized to give medical exams for immigration <3 yay <3
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Youngster Joey in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    So, fellas. Uhhh. I might have ordered an engagement ring for Davy.
     
    It's silly, but I was trying to find something that looked not unlike Sigurd's emblem ring in Engage ( pic for reference). I found this, a bit expensive but not unreasonably so, with the biggest caveats being: aquamarine which as far as I can tell is the lower bound of "acceptable for an lifelong ring but expect to one day replace it" gem.
     
    Anyway, this is a very weird feeling and I'm honestly a bit anxious for the ring to arrive. Especially since this is the most money I've spent on something that wasn't, like, rent or some other necessity.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from April in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    So, fellas. Uhhh. I might have ordered an engagement ring for Davy.
     
    It's silly, but I was trying to find something that looked not unlike Sigurd's emblem ring in Engage ( pic for reference). I found this, a bit expensive but not unreasonably so, with the biggest caveats being: aquamarine which as far as I can tell is the lower bound of "acceptable for an lifelong ring but expect to one day replace it" gem.
     
    Anyway, this is a very weird feeling and I'm honestly a bit anxious for the ring to arrive. Especially since this is the most money I've spent on something that wasn't, like, rent or some other necessity.
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    Stephen 776 reacted to Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    its YOUR wedding, the only one who has to care about whether its dumb or not is you and davy assuming you're paying for it all its a cute outfit and i've certainly seen men attend their own weddings in much less than acceptable attire lol. i think it'd be pretty easy to find a suit with gold touches like that, wedding attire has gotten a lot more lax in recent decades so there's a lot more options for fanciful stuff than there was previously
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Chrom in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    So, fellas. Uhhh. I might have ordered an engagement ring for Davy.
     
    It's silly, but I was trying to find something that looked not unlike Sigurd's emblem ring in Engage ( pic for reference). I found this, a bit expensive but not unreasonably so, with the biggest caveats being: aquamarine which as far as I can tell is the lower bound of "acceptable for an lifelong ring but expect to one day replace it" gem.
     
    Anyway, this is a very weird feeling and I'm honestly a bit anxious for the ring to arrive. Especially since this is the most money I've spent on something that wasn't, like, rent or some other necessity.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    Another complication if we did a big wedding is that nearly every guest would be from my side of the family; David basically doesn't have an extended family. Keeping it small helps sidestep this issue.
     
    Speaking of wedding attire, it's dumb, but I'd like to find a suit that's looks like the rune factory wedding outfit, but not so much that it looks like cosplay. Which is to say, finding a white suit with gold trim and such. But that's a future me problem.
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    Stephen 776 reacted to Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    when we were originally planning to hold a wedding in colorado, all my plans were for like a 25 person maximum with us doing most of the work; we hadn't planned on a budget but i was even looking up recipes to bake my own wedding cake and looking up civil buildings to hold a reception in. i think i'd still like to do that in the future since at our ACTUAL wedding, the only 3 people there were are our officiant (you can't get married in a courthouse in canada, did you know that? she cost us like 200 dollars just to show up for like 15 minutes) and ty's two siblings lmao. we had a picnic where we made some sandwiches and sat in the park; it was nice but not exactly ideal i bought my dress off of ASOS and the most money we spent was on food lol.
     
    both my ring and ty's came from etsy; ty's was around 125 dollars i think and mine was like 150 i think? for a ring that's insanely good quality and beautiful, it was a great investment for sure, especially since we never planned on getting bands
     
    my sister in law has a huge honker of a diamond for her ring and not only did it probably cost my brother a fortune, but its ugly as hell imo i definitely support the idea of a small wedding...the idea of professing my undying love in front of 100+ people while spending a small fortune for it makes me wanna die and the upcharges alone the second you mention 'wedding' to a vendor are insane. way more fun to do it your way and have some money to spare afterwards
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    I forget how, but last summer we actually had a long conversation for how we'd go about marrying. and mostly decided on a small civil ceremony at SF City Hall because of how expensive weddings can be. We didn't have a lot of money last summer (my old job went to complete shit), so even that wasn't possible at the time, but I feel we'd still move forward with our plan of doing a civil ceremony at SF City Hall (with just our parents as guests) and then having a nice meal in the city (with parents, siblings, and their SOs and kids).
     
    Our money situation is much much better, but far from perfect, and I can't imagine spending over 1k (let alone over 10k) for a wedding. We can always do a vow ceremony in the far future if we feel like we're missing out. Even for our wedding bands, I'd probably look at simple white gold/platinum/titanium rings on Etsy.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Doc Brown in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    So, fellas. Uhhh. I might have ordered an engagement ring for Davy.
     
    It's silly, but I was trying to find something that looked not unlike Sigurd's emblem ring in Engage ( pic for reference). I found this, a bit expensive but not unreasonably so, with the biggest caveats being: aquamarine which as far as I can tell is the lower bound of "acceptable for an lifelong ring but expect to one day replace it" gem.
     
    Anyway, this is a very weird feeling and I'm honestly a bit anxious for the ring to arrive. Especially since this is the most money I've spent on something that wasn't, like, rent or some other necessity.
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    Stephen 776 got a reaction from Eliwood8 in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    So, fellas. Uhhh. I might have ordered an engagement ring for Davy.
     
    It's silly, but I was trying to find something that looked not unlike Sigurd's emblem ring in Engage ( pic for reference). I found this, a bit expensive but not unreasonably so, with the biggest caveats being: aquamarine which as far as I can tell is the lower bound of "acceptable for an lifelong ring but expect to one day replace it" gem.
     
    Anyway, this is a very weird feeling and I'm honestly a bit anxious for the ring to arrive. Especially since this is the most money I've spent on something that wasn't, like, rent or some other necessity.
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    Stephen 776 reacted to Spring in Route 113 - N4A Chat Thread - March 2024   
    wahhhhh how exciting!!!! congrats!! when ty and i got married we didn't do a proposal and nothing was secret ("i think we should just get married?") so in comparison it was a much easier process
     
    i was EXTREMELY poor when i moved here, so the ring i got ty is mostly brass which as you can imagine they do not wear much as it turns their finger green. my ring is rose gold with an opal as the main stone i plan on upgrading ty's ring to gold for our 5th wedding anniversary
     
    in terms of fanciness, i don't think that kind of thing is actually necessary to think about...not a single person i know has ever commented on my ring being not a band, not my birthstone, ty not wearing theirs at all, or being 'less than acceptable' in any way. usually married people are pretty clear they're married anyway lol.
     
    good luck with your proposal!! also i like the ring you chose!
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